What’s your all-time favorite album?
Aenima by Tool
The answer to this question has not changed since the first time I listened to this album when I was 15.
What’s your all-time favorite album?
Aenima by Tool
The answer to this question has not changed since the first time I listened to this album when I was 15.
Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.
Well, this is a bit of a loaded question since hindsight is 20/20 and I don’t think I know a single person who would not want the opportunity to be better prepared for things. Having said that….
I wish I knew earlier in life that not everyone is going to work, play, and/or love as hard or as much as you do, and that it is unfair to expect yourself from other people. Had I known that from the get go, I could have saved myself a lot of stress, pain, and frustration.
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
Rudeness
No explanation. If you are rude to others, especially for no reason, that is a huge red flag. Kindness is free. If you can’t constantly utilize it, that’s an issue.
If you had to give up one word that you use regularly, what would it be?
To clarify, are we saying we can’t use the word itself but can replace it with something else, or remove the word completely from our lexicon without replacement or substitution?
In either case, it would be the word “should”. I do not like this word, and try my best not to use it. I used to use it as much as anyone else, but have been trying to catch myself. The reason I don’t like the word is because it implies obligation, yet many people use it to “suggest” things that they want, not that the person is actually obligated to do. For example, at work, “they (the company) should give 10% raises”. It can be a bit more devious when used in one on one conversation where the person saying it may actually have influence on the outcome.
Yeah, should would be the word I give up.
Are you holding a grudge? About?
I have to say no on this one, I am not one to hold a grudge. I don’t have the time or energy for that kind of emotional drain.
I will say, however, that my behavior may change in accordance with what I learn about the other person and/or my place in their life through certain interactions. So, there is that. I wouldn’t say that’s a grudge, per se, but more so a sort of reciprocal adjustment.
Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.
“Home” is an interesting concept to me. For most people, it’s a particular place – the area they grew up, their hometown. For me, home has always been a transient thing. My parents were in the military, so we moved around a lot. Different states, different countries – I don’t have a hometown.
Even now, after settling in an area of the US, I don’t feel that this is my home in the sense that most people think of it, especially with regard to this question.
Now that I have gone off on that little tangent, back to the question at hand. I went to the Bahamas with my husband once. We went on a cruise, and had a great time, for the most part. There was one particular excursion that involved kayaking. I had never been in a kayak before, and know nothing about properly navigating or operating one. We wound up stuck in bushes, going in circles, being the last in the line of other people on the excursion. Bickering and frustration were rampant. We tell the story now and laugh, but I will never again go kayaking or board any vessel that I am in any way responsible for propelling or steering. It’s safer that way. 😝
What TV shows did you watch as a kid?
Ok, so aside from the standard Saturday morning cartoons, my list of childhood TV watching included:
MASH
China Beach
Sea Quest
Macgyver
Quantum Leap
Murder, She Wrote
The Scarecrow and Mrs. King
Jeopardy
Wheel of Fortune
What’s your favorite time of day?
As with most of my answers to these prompts, it depends.
In general, I prefer nighttime and evening hours. Everything feels calmer, less rushed. That also seems to be when my creativity spikes. I honestly don’t care to know why (astonishing, I know!); it has simply always been that way. In this rare instance, I see no need in questioning how my mind and body prefer to operate.
However, because I live in a world where working hours are in the 9-5-ish range, I have to adapt if I want to get anything useful (in the “adulting” sense) done. That said, given the choice, I like to get errands, appointments, chores and such done as early as possible so that I can focus on my own projects and passions at the time when I am most creative.
Tell us about the last thing you got excited about.
The last thing I got, and am still, excited about was the launch of Peterson Academy. I love to learn, and the fact that I can take any course and not be tied to a narrow degree program is freaking fantastic!!
What are your top ten favorite movies?
In no particular order, because like most things, it depends….
Pi
Phone Booth
Requiem for a Dream
One Hour Photo
The Fifth Element
Fight Club
Girl, Interrupted
Hackers
SLC Punk
Flatliners
Honorary mention to 13 Ghosts